Dear Friends
Spirituality
Hello, I’m a recovering racist … and a recovering sexist. My name is Mark.
I recently attended an
international conference is Johannesburg hosted by the Jesuit Institute
entitled Spiritual Direction in the
African Context. The above comment stems from a paper presented by Prof
Susan Rakoczy, IHM, Women and Spiritual
Direction: The Many Dimensions of Co-Discernment in which she challenged us
to recognise the formative nature of society upon us; that while we may not –
or no longer – consciously hold to racial or sexist dogma, if we have grown up
in a society that has formed us in these ideologies (she grew up in the USA)
we, like alcoholics, are never truly free of these social diseases. Her paper
focused more particularly on the struggle women directors and women seekers of
spiritual direction experience, influenced by the patriarchy of church and
society; and how this is often a barrier to women in growing into a true sense
of self in a world where male experience and needs often define our
spirituality, theology and praxis within the church and the social environment.
Racism in the South African
context has devolved in our post-1994 democracy into classism and xenophobia.
Whenever, we find ourselves talking about, “Those people …” or saying to
someone in some way different from ourselves, “Your people …”, we are guilty of
spreading these social germs. We often react with surprise when we are
challenged for making what is perceived to be a racist, classist, sexist,
homophobic or xenophobic remark, and are sure we are not. However, if we have
been exposed to these social diseases – and if we are honest, they are
prevalent globally in most cultures and societies in some form – it is likely
that we are in a continuous process of recovery (unless we consciously choose
to promote these evil attitudes), hopefully moving to greater wholeness as
individuals and societies, but recovering nonetheless. This process of recovery
impacts on our spirituality, our awareness of self, of God, of community, and
is often at the root of social and community breakdown. It stunts our spiritual
and emotional growth as persons. An awareness and willingness to acknowledge
that we are recovering – as opposed to recovered – is a first step towards
relational and social health.
Corpus Christi, with our
wonderfully cosmopolitan and intra-cultural diversity, offers an ideal Alcoholics Anonymous-type space to begin
to deal with these negative issues and attitudes that affect our society. The
question, ultimately, in our parish context is whether we are able to trust
one-another sufficiently to create such a space where our antibodies to these
social diseases can be strengthened? One of the Wesley brothers described the
church as a microcosm of the greater world, a thought that I find helpful when
we have to deal with social and relational pain within the church and Christian
community. If we create this space for each other there will be times when we
are hurt by fellow Christians
Is God’s power strong enough to
sustain us through these actual or potential hurts that we may truly be a
transformed community transforming our world? I believe it is possible.
So what are you recovering from?
Cathedral Update
The
Commission under Canon 21.3 has begun its work, and the Cathedral has requested
that the process of mediation only begin after the Commission’s investigation
is complete. While these processes continue Chapter members will take Sunday
services at the Cathedral on a rotational basis, and the process of appointing
a Dean will begin and other governance issues will be addressed.
Anonymous
emails emanating in some form from the Cathedral community, along with various
newspaper articles, continue to undermine and attack the Bishop’s character and
leadership. Please realise that these articles do not reflect the whole truth
and are often based on false allegations and not on proven fact.
Please
continue to pray for the Cathedral Parish, the Diocesan Leadership and our
Bishop, and those who represent the Province on behalf of the Archbishop, that real
reconciliation and healing may be experienced by all concerned.
Blessings
Mark
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